the grey matter.

Mama always told me to save myself for marriage.

For your one true love;

The person you’ll spend the rest of your life with.

Pops always told me to find true happiness in someone.

With that one special someone;

Someone who would make me whole.

Growing up; sex was sacred, forbidden, disgusting and oh so mysterious.

Growing up; rape was unheard of, unspoken of, behind closed doors, and oh so distant.

Mama never told me that there are 50 Shades of Rape.

Media never told me that- according to contrary belief-

Rape is not black and white.

Rape is not a vulnerable woman walking down a dark alley at night.

Rape is not a representation of being weak.

Rape is not a male stranger clothed in black hiding behind a dumpster in said dark alley

Preying on his next victim.

Rape is not controversial.

Rape is not a culture.

Rape is not confined to any extreme.

Rape is not confined for it holds

No boundaries.